What’s Next after Breakup?

What’s Next after Breakup?

What’s next after breakup?  To handle your breakup is next after recovering from the shock of walking out on each other. The question most of us begins to ask ourselves is where to go next after breakup.   Couples fight and eventually breakup every day.  If you just became a sudden break up victim, rest assure for things are going to get better.

So what’s next after your breakup?  These are few things you need to know to ensure that you gain your self control as soon as possible.  The sooner you can get yourself together the faster you can work on how to save this relationship or get your ex back.

1.  Space

It is probably the most common advice out there.  You might find yourself giving the same advice to your friends and families.  It is the best advice for it is the one that always work.  I know that in this age since everything work so fast and society is so used to take care of things right away, it doesn’t work when it comes to matters of the heart.  Give your ex and yourself to recover from the time of the fight or breakup.  This is the time where you should spend time to gradually let go of any feeling of resentment, anger and bitterness towards your ex.  Let time work for you to recover.

2.  Find Support

Before moving on, I would like to remind you to ensure that you don’t abuse this.  Let yourself accept what the day will give you and cherish that moment.  Never, never impose your misery to others.  Finding support from your friends and families are the best thing you can have right now.  Enjoy every moment with them.  It is okay to feel a tad of loneliness or depression even though you are around them because it means that you are missing your ex.  This might be triggered by songs, mutual friends or familiar places (like the place you met).  The best thing to do is to continue doing what you currently doing.  It is normal to miss your ex.  This is the purpose of the giving each other space.  Imagine that if you are missing your ex he or she is missing you too.

These are the few things you need to first do in order to carefully handle your break up.  What’s next after breakup is to first give each other space and get your live move on for at least a couple of weeks to a month.  Next to these you will need to learn all about relationships, your relationship and what to do next when you are ready to talk again.